The medical establishment tells us that about 50 percent of women have so-called FSD (female sexual dysfunction). I think the "dysfunction" happens when our body says "NO" to regular old "friction" sex because we long for the "YES" of conscious touch, worship, and honoring of our most sacred temple space within. Perhaps this is wisdom, not dysfunction.
--Lisa Schrader, Awakening Shakti
One of the most powerful ways to increase your SHAKTI dear sisters is to get your body MOVING. Shakti is all about movement: letting the feelings move through you, getting your body in motion.
"We find the erotic so enticing because Eros puts us in touch with the numinous...it is the otherworldly entering our human experience. So it is unpredictable, unexplainable and mysterious."--Lisa Schrader
"Only the united best of heart and sex together can create ecstasy."
Photos above via Lisa Schrader and Awakening Shakti on facebook.
Sacred Sexual Healing: The SHAMAN Method of Sex Magic blows the bedroom doors off an underground Tantra revolution, exposing the work of the modern Daka and Dakini and making available practical, sacred sexual secrets. In a clear, down-to-earth voice, we offer dozens of exercises to: * Experience your body as a temple * Release guilt, shame and fear about sex * Increase your orgasmic potential * Get your needs met in relationship * Direct your sexual power to manifest your deepest desires. Women may re-discover their libido, relieve pain during intercourse and connect to their sexual intuition. Men will eliminate fear of intimacy, cure performance anxiety, and learn to sexually satisfy a woman. The intention of this book is to heal the greatest collective wound on the planet: the separation between Sex and Spirit.
Kamala Devi is a nationally-recognized speaker, author, mentor and polyamory activist who created the Beyond Monogamy program to help open-minded people liberate their love lives. She has been successfully navigating open relationships for over 15, in an open marriage for 10 years, and is the mother of a beautiful 6-year-old boy. You may have seen her family starring in Showtime's hit docu-series, Polyamory: Married and Dating. Kamala Devi has recently been featured on Ricki Lake, Dr. Drew, Tyra Banks and the award-winning documentary Sex Magic. Kamala Devi is the founder of Tantra Palooza, San Diego Tantra Theater and Poly-Palooza. Her mission is to awaken healers, teachers and visionaries to becoming community love leaders.
Maybe she's not the most beautiful woman in the world, but she has lovely firm breasts and a shapely ass. Maybe he's not the most handsome man, but he knows how to please his lover. Maybe she's not a "10," but she gets all your jokes. Maybe he's not rich, but he's generous in and out of bed. Maybe he or she isn't perfect, but has many great attributes. Learn to savor the other's qualities that appeal to you, that turn you on. If your lover can make you laugh, can make you feel good about yourself, or loves to make love to you, it's far more important than physical perfection. Does your lover make you worry about making a mistake, not having enough money, not wearing the perfect clothes? Or do they bring out the best in you?
Having oral sex upside down is fun and highly stimulating. We recommend you don't try it unless you are both physically fit with no health problems, and the man is in good shape. Start with him lying on the bed with his feet on the floor. She gets atop him, with her legs around his head and her hands on his knees. He holds her firmly around her waist and slowly rises to a standing position. This gives him a unique and wonderful position to perform cunnilingus, and she will enjoy the rush of blood to her head as she peforms fellatio upon him. Try it, you'll like it!
The beautiful and intelligent Nina Hartley is one of the sexiest adult actresses of all time, and the host of a popular series of explicit sex instruction DVDs. She and her sexy adult porn star friends demonstrate sexual positions, oral sex, anal sex, alternative sex and everything you need to know to pleasure your lover and achieve greater satisfaction.
Professor Hartley demonstrates proper fellatio technique.
The gorgeous, glamorous, ever youthful Nina Hartley is
one of the sexiest stars in adult movies, with a beautiful face,
fabulous breasts, and an astonishing bubble butt. She is also an able and willing professor in the arts of lovemaking.